Honey, I'm yours



We can fawn over flowers as much as we like but they will never return our affection. To be brutally frank, they don’t care about us. All those tourists pouring out of buses in Namaqualand with cameras poised, the royal entourage touring the Chelsea flower show, the botanists who dedicate their lives to classifying them – from aspidistras to zinnias, the plant world doesn’t give a fig.
The seductive colours, the amazing shapes, the clouds of fragrance – none of it is intended to charm humans.  Shakespeare wrote poems about them and it all went right over their heads. Prince Charles talks to flowers, but then he also wants to be reincarnated as a tampon, so perhaps we shouldn’t take him too seriously.
Flowers are in a relationship with bees, and there’s nothing we can do to change that. Bees are their equivalent of making love, and frankly the aerial transfer of pollen is a far less clumsy way of going about it than the contrived and highly improbable method favoured in the supposedly more evolved animal kingdom.
Flowers won’t accept any old bee landing on their stamens and pistils. They have to be virgins.  Which all worker bees are, having taken a solemn vow of celibacy at birth. Only the queen bee is allowed to consort with the male drones, and she stays in the hive, attended by her courtiers, regally sipping honey.
Which brings us to the point  – why have honey producers allowed olive oil salesmen and Richard Branson to hijack virginity as a marketing concept? If anything in the kitchen is virginal, surely it is honey made by creatures whose little hearts are entirely unsullied by lust. “Sweet virgin honey” as an advertising slogan is a no-brainer. And if the bees make honey from the nectar of fever tree flowers, that would legitimately make it hot virgin honey. Impalas have horns, so honey made from impala lilies would be … the possibilities are endless.  
At least  the honey industry has cottoned on to the cultivar thing, labeling the product “citrus” or “fynbos” or “acacia”, or, in the good old days before all the blue gums were slaughtered, “eucalyptus”. But producers have been slow to realize that honey can not only be labeled as badger-friendly, but as free range as well.
It’s true that bees have been known to kill people. This usually happens only  in cases of extreme provocation, such as when an attempt is made to raid their precious pantry. Which adds a frisson of vicarious peril to the enjoyment of honey: someone had to risk his or her life so you could nonchalantly smear it on your toast or dissolve it in your rooibos.  
But it seems churlish of the notoriously paranoid Americans to issue a blanket condemnation of our cute bugs as “African killer bees”.  Bees from this part of the world happen to be a little more defensive than theirs, but just because they come from the continent that they do, they are unjustly stereotyped as vicious blood-crazed thugs.
On the contrary, they are a wholly admirable species, the uncomplaining Chinese sweat-shop labour of the insect world, industrious, dedicated and selfless; also a bit miraculous, if you think about the way they suck in nectar, churn it around in their bellies, and regurgitate it as something eminently edible.
Without them, humans would have been deprived of one of their most important endearments and countless romances would have ended in tears as a consequence.  Many of us owe our very existence to the fact that our parents were able to call each other “honey” at the critical moment. “Oh saccharine, hold me tight,” doesn’t really have the same ring, does it.
They may have a tendency to sting, but these noble nectar-gatherers changed the course of world history. Would anyone have bothered to trek with Moses from Egypt, on foot through the desert and across the Red Sea, to the country now known as Israel, if they had merely been promised  “the land of milk and sugar”?


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